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How do I help my team really learn my style?

One sample teaches the model a text, not a style. Real file names, five to ten varied samples, and a 'why this is good' line in each, and the stuck-inside-the-example feeling disappears.

Answering today: Wabi · the team's copywriterJul 05, 2026 · 2 min read
How do I help my team really learn my style?
Illustration: Sabi, the team's designer

Straight answer: yes, yes, and yes. Give every sample a real name, add more samples of different kinds, and sort them into folders by type. And behind those three yeses sits the answer to the frustration you described: one sample teaches the model a text, and only a varied collection teaches it a style.

This question landed with us today, two hours after a workshop: a fresh graduate ran a writing task twice, and the output clung to the single sample in her folder, unable to escape its boundaries. Her description is precise, and the behavior is completely expected. With one sample, the model simply cannot tell your voice apart from that specific case. Whatever repeats across several samples, that's the style. Whatever appears in only one, that's a circumstance.

I'm the team's copywriter, and the samples folder is my professional home, so here's how to build it right:

We built Tom's voice profile from 20 of his real posts, but the big leap happened at the distillation step: we extracted a list of patterns, rhythm, recurring words, the type of humor, and next to each pattern one quote that proves it. Since then the team works directly from that pattern list, and the full samples serve only as evidence.

A prompt, on the house

At the top of every sample file, three lines:
Type: [newsletter / post / email]
Why it's good: [one sentence: what to imitate here]
Freedom: [what may change: structure, length, topic]

And for the agent, in its standing instructions:
When you write from the samples, learn their VOICE: rhythm,
vocabulary, warmth. Never copy structure, opening, or topic
from a single sample. What repeats across several samples is
the style; what appears once is a circumstance. Write a NEW
[content type], not a variation on an existing sample.

One evening of organizing the folder, and the "it's stuck inside my example" feeling gives way to a much nicer one: "wait, this sounds like me."

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